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On this seventh anniversary of our loss, I think back to all the things that have happened and things that could have been. You are the biggest loss of my life and also for many others. However, you are not forgotten. Tomorrow, your friends have a golf tournament in your name for donations to the Ronald McDonald House in OKC. They too are changed by the impact you made during your 16 years. We love you and miss you. Love Dad. Jack Hayes, OKC, OK
September 29, 2007

Today would have been your 23rd birthday. Hard to believe. Wish you were here to celebrate with us, but we know that won't happen. We all miss you, but know you are in a better place and not suffering. We think of you all the time and miss you more each day. Happy Birthday son!
Jack Hayes
January 11, 2007



Jarred we miss you so much and think of you each and every day. We love you,
Grandma and Grandpa Griffith.
Nov 4, 2006

On this sixth anniversary, I wonder what might have been. Over the past years, I have learned what you meant to me, the family and your friends. I still can't accept any reason why you were taken from us. I miss you dearly and each day, draw from the memories to put me at ease...for a while. I miss you son, more than I ever realized and knew that I could. Someday we will meet again............Love, Dad
Jack Hayes
September 29, 2006


Its hard to believe its been five years. I still think about ya all the time as I know all your family and friends do. I miss you. With love, Trey
Trey Marler <treymarler@ou.edu> ;
Norman, -



Hey jarred..well this is Lisa im Kassi (your cousin's) best friend:)and well i have read a lot about you and i was thinkin it must of been rough for your family and friends..and i just about cryed lookin here at your site..: ( it just hurts to think of how it happened..well your in my heart also i know i didnt know you i feel like i did know you real well...but your in my thoughts and prays love lisa.
Lisa <Lisa_savage31@hotmai l.com>
Upland, IN united states -

January 11, 2006- Happy 22nd Birthday Jarred- we all miss you and wish you were here to celebrate. Hard to believe my first son would be this old. You are never forgotten and are always in our hearts and minds. Love, Dad
Jack Hayes <hayesjack@hotmail.com>
OKC, Ok USA -



Happy Birthday Jarred! We miss you and will forever love you! Not a day goes by that we don't think of you. Hope your birthday is great! Love and miss you always, - Aunt Julynn and your cousin Austin
Julynn and Austin Walker
Indianapolis, IN USA -

Jarred, It has been five years since you went to be with God in Heaven. He has a plan for all of us. We don't always understand why things happen but it is always his will. We will see you again someday, but until then we will miss and love you just as much as we did when you were with us. I know you would be very proud of your brothers as we are. Love, Grandma and Grandpa Hayes
Grandma and Grandpa Hayes <jewellhayes@aol.com>
Upland, In USA -



Jarred, Was thinking of you today. We miss you dearly everyday here on earth but we will see you again someday, I do know that. Until then, we will continue to have your memories in our thoughts and will love you forever. There was a better and bigger plan for you and even though it is difficult here on earth when we miss you so much, I am sure you know what that bigger and better plan was that God had for you. Your spirit lives on and not a day goes by when I do not think of you. We love you and miss you Jarred!
Julynn And Austin <julynnwalker@msn.com< /B>>
Indianapolis, IN USA -


Jarred, Five years ago today we lost you to a better place. It is hard to believe it has been that long, yet it seems forever. I think of you almost every hour- the past, and what the future would have been like. The impact that you made in this world is amazing for such a short period of life. Your family and friends do miss you. Your brothers Justin and Jordan continue on, knowing they miss their big brother! You will never be forgotten son. Love, Dad
Jack Hayes <hayesjack@hotmail.com>
OKC, OK USA -


Jarred we think of you always and miss you so much. We were able to be at Justin's graduation and visit with the family. Justin and Jordan have grown into such great young men. You would so proud of them. We miss you so much and are so thankful of all the times we got to visit with you while you were growing up. WE LOVE YOU
Grandma <Sgriffithsb@aol.com>
Marion, In USA -

Jarred- It has been quite a while since the last time I was on here. I recently lost a very close friend to suicide and it made me think of you sooo much, becuase you fought every day to live, whereas she just threw it all away. God works in mysterious ways, but i still question why he took you, our friend and loved one, at such a young age. Florida is treating me great, except for the uncomfortably hot days....I miss you sooo much...Phil 1:3...Rachel Viator
Rachel Viator <rachelviator@msn.com< /B>>
Fort Lauderdale, Fl USA - Friday, June 03, 2005 at 23:27:24 (EDT)



Hey Jarred, I was just thinking about you and I got on your website and started catching up on everything since the last time I was on here. I cant believe how much time has gone by without you. You left such a footprint on so many lives! Things have changed alot. Im a senior now in nursing school and I hope to influence lives in nursing the way you did on and off the court when you were here with us. I worked on the oncology unit a few weeks back and I thought alot about you. It was hard at first because the patient I was assigned was 17 and ironically had a brain tumor. On the outside of his door he had a blown up picture of himself playing basketball. I freaked out when I saw it because it was like you were here again. I got to talk to him a lot and one thing he told me was that he wasnt scared to die. He told me that he knew God would work things out and he reminded me alot of you. Even though its been a while since you left, talking to this young man gave me a sense of peace. I know your in Heaven with Sully having a good time. I always keep your family in my prayers. Keep watching down on us! Love ya, Jacquelyn
Jacquelyn Dalke <Sportgal83@aol.com& gt;
- Sunday, May 29, 2005 at 23:05:26 (EDT)



Hello...soooo much time has flown by. Everyone is in college; some of us are married, getting married, or waiting for the right person. Most of us are no longer in contact, though some of us do stay close. Soon enough we will be graduating from college, or continuing our education, starting families, etc. But although much has changed...much has changed the same. Obviously, you remain on everyone?s minds. Your legacy has also influenced others, as you can tell on the website. And will continue to influence people for years to come. Since I have visited this site much has changed. Last I was here, I was deciding on college, I went to SWOSU and that was not for me. I met my current boyfriend there, who will someday be my husband. I have gone to OU, and started a wonderful job working near your mom at Integris Baptist. I am buying a house, like I said earlier, getting married in the near future, as well as everyone else knows, life for us just keeps on flying by. Justin has been up there with you for almost three years now, which makes me break tears, and everyone misses him and you just the same. Struggles seem to come and go, as well as achievements in life. Change is the only constant that has not gone away, like friends, or changing schools, or jobs or whatever. No matter what happens, good or bad there is change. We all wish you guys were here with us to experience everything with us, and for you to experience yourself, but God had a different plan for you, as well as for Justin. We all can?t wait until the day that you all are with us again! Until then?Micah 6:8 Megan
Megan <tatewalk722@sbcgloba l.net>
oklahoma city, ok USA - Saturday, April 02, 2005 at 11:54:06 (EST)


We can never know why it happened to someone so young but to parents that it has happened to, we realize that each child is a very special gift that can be taken at any time. The hurt never goes away, time does not heal the wound it only allows memories to soften the pain. We lost two sons. I think your son is the type of person that I would call a hero.
Michael Bradley <MRB48415@charter.com< /B>>
Burch Run, MI USA - Tuesday, February 01, 2005 at 22:49:24 (EST)


Jarred, Happy 21st Birthday! It seems like yesterday that my first son came into this world, with the biggest feet the doctor had ever seen, not knowing how big of an impact you would make in so many lives! I wish you were here- you could have seen your brothers playing varsity basketball together at the same time, on your birthday. We all miss you and still can't believe you are gone, for now. We will all meet again- I can't wait. I miss you so much son, Love, Dad
Dad <hayesjack@hotmail.com>
OKC, OK - Wednesday, January 12, 2005 at 17:38:43 (EST)

It is hard to believe it has been 21 years since you came into my life. You were such a fine young man and I often wonder what you would be doing today. Thank you for all the wonderful memories, I will cherish them always. Happy Birthday, Son!! Love, Mom
Mom <ShariHayes@aol.com& gt;
Yukon, OK USA - Tuesday, January 11, 2005 at 09:40:47 (EST)


Happy Birthday Jarred! We love and miss you dearly!
Aunt Julynn

Indianapolis, IN - Monday, January 10, 2005 at 08:47:37 (EST)


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