Remembering Jarred Hayes - 2004 board

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Merry Christmas, son. I really missed you yesterday. We all miss you- I thought a lot about you while watching your brothers unwrap presents and watch TV. I wish I could see you again, and I will some day. Watch over us until then, Love Dad
Jack Hayes <hayesjack@hotmail.com>
Oklahoma City, OK USA - Sunday, December 26, 2004 at 09:59:18 (EST)
Merry Christmas! Christmas has not been the same without your bright smile and laughter! I miss you!! Love, Mom
Mom <ShariHayes@aol.com>
Yukon, OK - Sunday, December 26, 2004 at 00:14:55 (EST)
Jarred Wow it has been almost 3 years since i last wrote on this board, i think about you each day, checking the site never knowing how to put my thoughts into words on paper. I cant believe that it has been 4 years since the last time we spoke, laughed and had fun. From the times we had on Heather Terr. with the Cavs and Cubbies to the times on the tractor in Banner to the Sox then the Millers then the Lookouts and finally to the "Real" Millers. We had so many memories that will always be close to my heart. I know everything happens for a reason and one day i will find out the reason you were taken from our lives at such a young age. But for now i want to thank you for the things you showed me while you were still here, they have made me a better person in life and have given me the qualities that have molded me into the young man i have become. I know there will be plenty of time in the future to go shoot baskets and make up our own 64 team one on one tourney (maybe this time i will beat you), or maybe go throw the ball around. I know i will see you when i get there and i hope you have your glove cause i will be ready for your nasty duece. See you when i get there buddy. BEST Friends FOREVER Love Nic
Nic Dion <nicdion@ou.edu>
Norman, OK USA - Thursday, December 09, 2004 at 06:42:12 (EST)
Jarred just wanted to let you know we miss you very much. We think about you each & every day. We love you. grandma & grandpa
Grandma & Grandpa Griffith <Sgriffithsb@aol.com>
Marion, In - Tuesday, December 07, 2004 at 20:02:33 (EST)
I sure enjoyed coaching you up in baseball. We had a lot of fun on the Yukon AA-15's. I'll never forget the 2 wins and a save you had as a pitcher...all in one day. Wow, what a tournament. You were the "ACE" of the staff...my go to guy...my #1 who wore #2. Thank you for the wonderful memories.
Coach Roberts <jeff.roberts@yukonps.com>
Yukon, Ok USA - Sunday, October 17, 2004 at 21:28:54 (EDT)
Hey Jarred, Kassi (your cousin) is my best friend. We have been talking about you a lot lately and I know your story and I think it was very sad. I think about you often now. Mackenzie
Mackenzie
Upland, IN America - Sunday, October 17, 2004 at 17:59:17 (EDT)
Four years has passed since you left us but you are still in our prayers and dreams. We do not get to see mom or you brothers as much as we would like, but enjoy them when we can. They are all doing fine. We love you and miss you very much and you will always remain in our memories as a beloved grandson.
Grandma & Grampa Griffith <sbgriffith@aol.com>
Marion, IN USA - Friday, October 01, 2004 at 21:02:53 (EDT)
jarred, man its been so long since the last day i saw you, but it still seems like it was yesterday. 4 years is such a long time. its really been hard this year, going into my senior year and woundering how yours would have been and to see if you would have went to play college basketball. please watch out for everyone down here and keep us safe we all miss you, i love you man and cant wait to see you again, ur brother justin
justin hayes
- Thursday, September 23, 2004 at 01:23:01 (EDT)
Its hard to believe its almost been 4 years now since you went on to a better place. We still miss you alot and think of you all of the time. Watch over your brothers and your friends that are turning 21 this year. I know your our angel from above. We miss you!! KT
Karri Thompson <karty3@aol.com>
Yukon, ok usa - Monday, September 20, 2004 at 23:44:40 (EDT)
Nelson- Whats up man! I ran into your little bro the other day, and as soon as I saw him I started to reflect on all the memories we were having when we were his age. I sure do miss you. Ive been praying for your family since you were tooken from us and i will continue to do so untill we get the chance to meet again man! See you soon bud! I still will never forget #25!!!
Jordan Bley <jobley@mail.snu.edu>
Bethany , OK 73008 - Thursday, September 16, 2004 at 19:33:48 (EDT)
Jarred it's been awhile since we've added our thoughts on this website. It's not any specil day today.There aren't any days that we don't think of you,and remember what a special grandson you were.You will always be in our thoughts and hearts. We love you.
Grandma & Grandpa Hayes <jewellhayes@aol.com>
Upland, In USA - Friday, August 27, 2004 at 22:54:46 (EDT)
Hey you! Its been a long time since Ive gotten on this website and read over all the "good times". You are so amazing Jarred. Im at Southwestern right now and I was just thinking about what it would have been like if you were here to share it with me and the rest of the gang from Yukon that goes here. I noticed that lots of people who never even knew you have read your website and I think thats so neat. I hope that when I pass on that I can still touch lives years later like you have. You had such a precious heart. I miss you and hope I get to see you soon! Until then.....Jac
Jacquelyn Dalke <Sportgal83@aol.com>
Burkburnett, TX - Tuesday, June 15, 2004 at 23:38:40 (EDT)
Hey man. Just missing you. I hope that you are looking down on and taking care of all of the special people in Oklahoma. I think of you all the time and it is people like you and Justin who inspire the walk that i have began with Jesus Christ. See you in Heaven....Rach :)
RAchel Viator <rachelviator@msn.com>
Ft. Lauderdale, Fl USA - Sunday, April 18, 2004 at 00:13:15 (EDT)
A MAN I WORK WITH HAD ON A YUKON SHIRT AND I TOLD HIM THE STORY OF YOUR SON. HE THEN SMILED AND SAID I NEW HIM. HIS SON-IN-LAW COACHED JARED IN BASKETBALL. HE TOLD ME HOW HE WORE HIS UNIFROM AND HAD A B-BALL WITH HIM. I BEGAN TO CRY BECAUSE THIS IS JUST A TERRIBLE THING BUT ALSO A BLESSING. GOD DOES ALL THINGS FOR A REASON AND I KNOW HE IS WATCHING OVER ALL OF YOU. EVERYONE CAN TELL HOW MUCH YOU LOVED YOUR SON, BROTHER, GRANDSON, FRIEND,ETC. I KNOW HE FELT THE SAME FOR ALL OF YOU! MAY GOD BE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY! - LACEY M COWLES
LACEY M COWLES <sk8tnon@yahoo.com>
COWETA, OK WAGONER - Friday, April 16, 2004 at 11:23:42 (EDT)
To the family of Jarred- I didn't know you rson and if it weren't for Coach Knight I wouldn't have even seen this. I was typing in Coweta,Ok and this was a site. Your son seemed to me the type that was always giving. A true soldier, and the more I read a soldier for God. I wish I could have met him and I know that won't bring him back, but he is a light in so many hearts and a hero to me. I wish you all the best of luck. All my love- Lacey M. Cowles Class of 2001 Coweta,OK
Lacey Cowles <sk8tnon@yahoo.com>
Coweta, ok Wagoner - Thursday, April 08, 2004 at 12:27:21 (EDT)
I can't beleive its been so long since I have seen you but you still are in my heart everyday. I miss you and can't wait till I see you again. I love you!
Katie Thompson <Kdtcheer@aol.com>
Yukon, Ok USA - Wednesday, March 10, 2004 at 15:05:21 (EST)
Jarred- Hey man, I just wanted to say hi. I was going through some old photo albums the other day and came across a picture of you. I still can not believe you are gone. I see your mom every once in awhile and she appears to be holding on. You were a great person and friend to many people and still are a part of many lives. I still wish that day never happened and I will see you again
Nik Lee <ounik2004@yahoo.com>
Yukon, OK USA - Monday, March 01, 2004 at 13:08:43 (EST)
JARRED- HEY SWEETIE...JUST STOPPED ON HERE TO WRITE A QUICK HELLO. I SURE DO WISH YOU WERE STILL WITH US. I LOVE AND MISS YOU. LOOK DOWN ON US..RACHEL RAE
RACHEL <RACHELVIATOR@MSN.COM>
FT.LAUDERDALE, FL USA - Friday, February 06, 2004 at 13:52:55 (EST)
Happy Birthday Jarred. There's not a day when you are on our minds. Wish you were here to celebrate your birthday with us. Our celebration will come when we meet again
Wilbur Griffith <Sgriffithsb@aol.com>
Marion, IN Grant - Monday, January 12, 2004 at 09:25:30 (EST)
Dear Son, Today would have been your 20th birthday- hard to believe. I remember this day as if it was yesterday. My first of three sons- "Nelson, No. 7", as Grandpa Hayes (the 5th) would say. We miss you and wish you were with us to celebrate your new decade of life. I still don't understand why you were taken from us- you were so precious to your family and friends. I think of you several times each day, hoping to hear your voice or see your face, just one more time. Each day gets worse-I can't wait to see you again.... Love, Your Dad
Jack Hayes <hayesjack@hotmail.com>
OKC, OK - Sunday, January 11, 2004 at 23:20:58 (EST)
Happy Birthday Jarred! Your missed and loved and remembered every day.
Shelly Dawson <sbdawson7598@aol.com>
- Sunday, January 11, 2004 at 17:28:27 (EST)
Happy Birthday Jarred. We love you and miss you dearly...I know up in heaven you are having a great birthday! We love you! Julynn, Randy and Austin
Julynn <julynn@sbcglobal.net>
Indianapolis, IN USA - Sunday, January 11, 2004 at 17:20:18 (EST)
You never knew me and I never knew you. I happened to come across this loving website and read the entries. I thought I would add my own since it would have been your either 19th or 20th birthday tomorrow. I know your family misses you. That much is more than obvious in the entries made by them. You were surrounded by love. You are in a better place now with no more pain or crying. I regret I never got to meet you. I am a sophmore in high school so this may sound wierd, but though I never met you, I miss you. Brittany.
Brittany <Akerssoccer@aol.com>
PA USA - Saturday, January 10, 2004 at 18:25:22 (EST)
Jarred- i never had the chance to meet you but i feel like ive known your from this website and both of your brother, Jordan and Justin they are such great people and are so unique..I wish i could have met you, you sound like a great person!You have changed so many lifes and you still are changing peoples lifes thank you so much for that! -To the Hayse family: You are very strong and i no this was a very hard time for you and i'am so sorry you had to go thru it!Jared is in a better place now watching over us! You have raise wonderful children and i will never forget jordan or justin , and all the wonderful things people have told me about jarred! -Danielle Abbott
Danielle Abbott <yknetnie321@aol.com>
yukon, ok - Saturday, January 03, 2004 at 06:19:45 (EST)
Hey there Jarred. It has been forever since the last time i got onto this site but i do think of you all the time. I hope you are taking care of all of my little angels up in heaven and i love and miss you tons. Rachel I bet Christmas was a blast up there. To everyone who looks onto here...have a safe and happy new year!
Rachel Viator <rachelviator@msn.com>
ft.lauderdale, fl USA - Thursday, January 01, 2004 at 23:25:28 (EST)